Your Dream is a Matter of Life and Death…Your Own

Dream or Die…Your Choice

It’s been said, Most people are dead, they just haven’t made it official. (Tweet This or  Share on Facebook) I agree. So did Andy Dufresne. He told his friend “Red” in The Shawshank Redemption:

“I guess it comes down to a simple choice, really. Get busy living or get busy dying.”  

Stuck in prison for a crime he didn’t commit, Andy had the choice of dreaming or dying. Thankfully, he kept dreaming. As a result, he kept living.

Those around him weren’t so fortunate. After serving 50 years in Shawshank, one convict named “Brooks” reentered society, quite unsuccessfully. Although free on the outside, he still suffered from a mental prison on the inside.

Unable to perform the simplest jobs like bagging groceries at a local supermarket, Brooks tells himself it’s easier to end his life than try to create a new one. “Red” shared perspective about Brooks mental condition:

 …These walls are funny. First you hate ’em, then you get used to ’em. After long enough, you get so you depend on ’em. That’s “institutionalized.” …They send you here for life, and that’s just what they take. Part that counts, anyway.

Although as a child you started out as a dreamer, you’ve been beat down along the way:

  • You’ve been told to play safe and play small.
  • You’ve been told to grow up and be mature.
  • You’ve been told to give up and be realistic.

These sound bytes are death to your soul and to your dream.

Guard your Heart…and your Dream

My favorite book says: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” (Tweet This or  Share on Facebook) It’s your responsibility to grow, nourish, and protect your heart and your dream.

  • Expect failure.
  • Expect criticism.
  • Expect pain.

Along the way you’ll be tempted to kill your dream. If  you do you won’t have to feel anything. But remember, dreaming is what makes you human. When you kill it, you also kill your humanity. The opposite is true too. When you achieve it, you feel alive. Just ask Diana Nyad…the 64 year-old who recently reached her dream.

Dreaming is about Recovery not Discovery

Most people think Diana Nyad’s dream began when she was 28 years old, the first time she attempted to swim from Cuba to Florida. A closer look reveals a different story.

Nyad remembers dreaming about swimming across the Florida Straits during her first visit to Cuba before the Communist takeover when she was 8 years old. Dreams grow and fade over time depending upon your focus. Often they hide in your subconscious, only to come raging back into your awareness.  Dreaming is more about recovery than discovery.

Nyad knew this better than most. She said:

“You have a dream….that doesn’t come to fruition, but you move on with life. But it’s somewhere back there. Then you turn 60, and your mom just dies, and you’re looking for something. And the dream comes waking out of your imagination.”

It’s time for your dream to wake out of your imagination. It’s time because it’s a matter of life and death. Your own.

QUESTION: I want to hear your dream. Big or small. Foolish or Brilliant. Because it’s in you, I want to hear it. Please comment below.

VIDEO: If you need some dream recovery, watch this video. (Careful though, it might just fire you up.)

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  • Barry Smith

    You’re spot on here Kary. We do get beat down as we go through life. So much so, that we can get consumed by it. Thanks for providing a pathway out my friend. Great post!

    • Glad to have you here Barry. It’s been awesome to see your dream come true.

      • Barry Smith

        Thanks for helping me get there Kary!

  • Jackie Ray

    My dream is to homeschool my daughter and my friends’ children and/or have my own little school where children can learn the way they learn best. I would also provide resources for homeschooling families and elective classes and tutoring.

    • I love your courage Jackie. Welcome to the community here. Excited to see your dream come true.

  • Martyn J Wood

    My dream is to help people uncover the treasure within by providing a way for them to excavate their brilliance